You are what you do.
You are what you think you did.
You are what you wish you could do.
You are what you have yet to do.
You are what you talk about doing.
You are all of the above with all excluded.
Thinking about it is not the same as making it so. Regardless of how much you think about it.
The facts are just that, the facts. Nothing to speculate over.
I did this carries more weight than I am thinking about doing.